I'm sorry that I have an off topic avatar. My 38 Plymouth is buried in the back of the garage and can't get a picture of it. Anyway, I lost my wife of 33 years Friday. She p***ed from a heart attack after being sick for awhile. This is the most devastating thing I have ever been through. I somehow feel that anything in the past is not important anymore. Thanks for listening.
That's tough. I remember that feeling when I lost my dad very suddenly 5 years ago. Thinking of you. The HAMB family is with you.
I am very sorry for your loss, 33 years is a great run. Remember the great times and try to stay busy. Surround yourself with friends and family.
The fact that you turned to the HAMB in this time of sorrow shows that you know have a support group here that will listen and help you as best we can, through these painful times. My sincere condolences to you sir. My kids always ask me why I take all the pictures and I am never in them - my answer - I want everyone to “see” what a great life I had through my eyes when I am gone. I am sure after 33 year you have numerous great memories - be thankful for that and discuss them often.
I am so sorry for your loss.With time,I hope you can treasure the good times you shared.Don't worry about the avatars,we're here for you.
I’m very sorry for you, 33 years is a long time. I went thru that 25 years ago. Not every day is better, but they do get better over time. An older friend who was also widowed told me “this is your new life, make the best of it for yourself and those you love” I found that valuable advice. Bless you.
Sorry for your loss. True love never dies. Please know we can only distract for the moment. Your strength is admitting your feelings.
I can't even imagine your pain or what you must be going through. Never discount the power of friendship, even the internet variety. We are here for you. Once a HAMBer, always a HAMBer. Unless one of the moderators is in a bad mood.
Just a thought, diving into that Plymouth might be the therapy or diversion you need now. Good luck, and try to stay positive.
Lemondana, I truly feel your pain on a very personal level. I too lost my wife of 37 years, 11 years ago from the evil that is cancer. A part of me died with her. At least it feels that way. Regardless of the cause, it IS devastating. It changes you. The only thing I might imagine to be worse is losing a child. Hang in there. I'd like to tell you things will get better with time, but the pain never goes away. One just learns to live with it.
I know what you are going through having lost my wife 3 weeks after our 37th anniversary. I want to caution you to not make any permanent decisions like selling your 38 or your home give it some time it will get better, I think about her every day. Will be praying for your and your family.Doug
Sorry for you loss. Remember everyone grieves in their own way and on their on time frame. Take care and take comfort that the HAMB is here for you.
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