maybe you guys can help me the way you have helped others...

i can agree..

i was one of three to get up speak at her wake..... i told a story of when we were young and talked her into standing on a sheet while i pulled it out from under her to see what happend.


needless to say she hit the deck and ****ed her **** all up... but damni its a funny story.... its not like it is in the movies.......


this ****s...

 

Hang in there man, time will help soften the pain.

 

I tried to type something profound and enlightening, but words fail me....

Your sister looks as if she lived life to the fullest. In the end, that's all that really matters.

Cry if you need to. Time will never heal your loss completely, but the good memmories will get you thru.

My thoughts are with you.

 

SO sorry to hear about your loss.

You and your family are in my thought's are prayer's..
Stay strong on and lean of your 'brother's, that's why they are there.

 

Sorry for your loss... I've been there.

Recently, my wife & I were having some marital issues (most if it my fault) and the thought of her & I going thru a dee-vorce was a bit more than I could stand, esp. considering she's a damn good wife and all that.
Depression & anxiety is a *****,it changes your whole outlook on everything. and a short term of anti-depressants & mood relaxers will help. I was to the point of selling off my **** and just rocking in a corner somewhere.

Tfeverfred said it perfectly- it's hard to fix yourself. I know from experience, I spent a week in the looney bin because I tried to fix my own problems.

 

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"Always" remember the good times you had together, and thank God for those times, many people don't get to do that!
God Bless my friend!!
Wayne
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Always ****s to hear another HAMB fam' member is hurting. Sorry to hear of your loss.

I have a little regret when it comes to people that have p***ed from my life. I wish I could have learned more about them and spent more time with them.

Here's my theory... I keep them in my thoughts and memories and I try to learn more about them and who they were whenever possible. I just try to believe that they know I'm thinking of them. It's about all I can do and the best I can do to show them my respects.

Thoughts out to you man! I don't know you either, but I do know one thing... we all cry, sometime, over something for some reason. Rather we admit it or not...

Take care!

 

Hey man, sorry for your loss. I'm not sure if there are any words that might help, but everyone understands. At some point in our lives, most of us have had to deal with similar events.

Take care,

 

man thats awefull man, but im glad you know we're all here for you. ive been around death most of my life as anyone with a big family is but burying close freinds the last few years realy puts a different tilt on it, make you see a little but outside of the blinders you end up wearing every day...got my thoughts/prayers

 

that totaly ****in ****s man. i did'nt know. REAL sorry to hear that. a damn shame to see such a young life cut short... realy puts the rest of lifes problems in perspective. you gotta cherish your loved ones like it's your last day, cause you never know.

if you need anything Brian, i'm here for ya. God knows i've cried more than my share on here about **** that was'nt half this bad. take care brutha!

 

I feel for you man, especially when you wish you had done things differently. I lost my Dad not long ago, we wern't close (my fault), and I miss him. Wish I had of done it different. Made me wake up, I look at family, friends a whole lot different now. It ****s to realize how short life is. Thoughts and prayers for you tonight.

 

DAMN IT! now you have me craving DOTS!. i love those things!

...oh. one thing i find that helps me a little when i'm feelin realy down (other than balling like a little girl) is to write. write down whatever comes to you. how you feel, memories of her, anything at all. it helps to get it out. i realy find writting to be theraputic. i jot stuff down all the time. sometimes just a sentence or a phrase. i like to think that some day i'll put it all together into a few songs or something but the point is to get it out! as you know talking is big too. it might not even hurt to talk to a professional the******. even Men's Health magazine suggests that a good the****** is something that EVERY man should have! it all makes a difference.

 

Music, cars. One of the reasons I got into rods is the hell in my household. Someone said that before, build a car in their memory. She looked like a helluva girl. God bless.

 

WOW Bryan, I'm so sorry. I really liked your sister. She was fun to be around. Foucus on that. The fun times you two had. Maybe it wasn't often but when you were together you laughed and had a good time. I'll see if I can find a photo or two that I took of her. Might even be one that you haven't seen yet....from that summer BBQ at your old place in Troy.

My condolences to you and your whole family.

 

hey bro dont let any thing like crying bring you down that just means you cared for her like you were supposed too when you have alot of love in your heart for someone close it leaks out evry now &then I lost my brother in law a year and a half ago somtimes it just hits me out of nowhere &my 6 ft 2 inch 312 lb body leaks alot of tears itself

 

SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS... Way too young to leave...

 

There you go right there bro, remember her fondly but don`t dwell to deep. We all break down every now and again.
Stay strong

 

Sorry for your loss Brian,I know what you are goin through right now.Lost my mother 2yrs ago 1 month later my sister came down with Leukemia and has been in and out of the hospitial since. She went back in 3 weeks ago and Thursday they told us she has less than 2 weeks to live. Really bad part is I had the flu and have not been able to see her, the hospitial won't let me in because i have a cough now and then! Open up and let it flow!! Mike

 

Lots of good advise and caring here.

Real men do cry. Bottling up can destroy you which I'm sure your sister wouldn't want.

Feeling really down at a time like this is normal and ok but if it carries on or worsens talk to a good health proffesional. You may need anti depressants to get back on a level keel. One really important point that I think Mercmad made was don't go down the drown your sorrows road. One thing I can guarantee is no matter how bad you feel now you will feel worse during and after drinking. Currently the go to a the****** approach is being reaccessed as in many cases it is now thought that it can make things worse. The talk about it with trusted friends or family is now felt to often be a safer and more effective way of dealing with grief.

As time goes on it doesn't so much get better, but gets differant, and becomes part of what makes us who we are.

Hang in, keep healthy and don't let this beat you. The only thing you can do to honour your sister is to lead as full a life as possible.

Terrible things like this are a reminder of how temporary a thing life is and how important it is to live for now.

 

So sorry Dirty, lost my little brother about 2 years ago. We both came down with this very rare cancer within months of each other. I constantly wonder, why him? I'm still fighting this **** ,surgery, chemo, and decided a year ago that This dodge roadster would be built in his and my dads honor. Dad was also a cancer victum.
Best therapy there is, I'm workin away and talking to both of them like their staning next to me. I believe they are now my angels. The way you feel about your sister, well, I think you have an angel too.
my condolences to you and family, OLY

The cancer car lives
Give to cancer research

 

so soory for your loss,when your felling down,rember the good stuff,i lost my grandfather a year and a half ago,and it still hurts like hell!so i know where you are

 

Mate, I don't want to sound condescending but I know what its like to loose people close to you. For what its worth mate keep your chin up, your sister would want you to stay strong and its OK to cry. I don't give a **** what others say about that.
If it does get a little to much Mercmad gave you some very good advice. Don't be too proud, look after your self.

 

DirtyT,

Sorry to hear about your sister. Hang in there. She would want you to.

Cry all you want.

JH

 

I'm so sorry for your loss. Time will help, but it's a long, slow process. Just hang in there and try to remember the good times.

 

Sorry for your Loss Bryan, it's been a damn ****ty year, my brother in law died last summer and my grandpa died in the fall, and an uncle died at christmas time. ****ed up ****, but all you can do is keep on going and remember them and talk about them when ever you can....I like dots too.....

 

I really feel for you bro. But don't let this get to you too much, talk to your parents and cry with them. Nothing wrong with cruing, it helps. Remember, life's too short and celebrate the memories of your sister and the good times you've shared.

 

sorry for your loss man, i to lost a sibling many years ago sept/28/78 in similar cur***stances and i still think about him almost everyday after all these years.. prayers and condolences to you and yours..

 

My brother was killed last spring so I feel you're pain. I pray that you get closure... because living without closure ****s! I know.

 

be strong, its ok to cry.
God offers strength and peace when asked.
RIP

 

that ****s dude.....Your parents need you now more than ever.......