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One year ago today,My son died.

Discussion in 'The Hokey Ass Message Board' started by oldfart, Dec 10, 2009.

  1. A lot of people here are flat black,fenderless loving,**** talkin sons a *****es BUT.
    When a brother is down you are an exceptional bunch of people.I was an absolute mess last year and you guys & Gals (MMMM Cookies:D)were more help than you could ever imagine.(Except for one guy,but theres always one isnt there?)
    Thank You Everyone for being there when I needed you.
    I have attached a picture of my son holding my only grandchild...Oldfart
     

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  2. Fatbob309
    Joined: Jan 1, 2009
    Posts: 491

    Fatbob309
    Member

    I hope you are doing better.
     
  3. JeffreyJames
    Joined: Jun 13, 2007
    Posts: 16,626

    JeffreyJames
    Member
    from SUGAR CITY

    Keep pushing through and spoil that grandchild rotten. Makes sure she knows who dearly you miss her father. God bless.
     
  4. chevy57dude
    Joined: Dec 10, 2007
    Posts: 9,699

    chevy57dude
    ALLIANCE MEMBER

    Sorry for your loss. It hurts me just thinking about it. Keep his memory alive for that cute grandbaby.
     
  5. C-1-PW
    Joined: Jun 11, 2006
    Posts: 357

    C-1-PW
    Member

    Be sure to teach your grandchild know the sight, sounds and smells of hot rods.
     
  6. dullchrome
    Joined: Jan 15, 2009
    Posts: 987

    dullchrome
    Member
    from SoCal

    Hold those little one dear.....they are a slice of heaven.
     
  7. Duce
    Joined: Nov 15, 2009
    Posts: 2

    Duce
    Member
    from Central IN

    God Bless You Sir...........Makes that grandchild even more precious.
    <>< Duce
     
  8. It's always hard to loose someone close but it's good to know that you can talk to the friends here at H.A.M.B.
     
  9. ts3x65mph
    Joined: Nov 7, 2008
    Posts: 96

    ts3x65mph
    Member

    Really Dont Know What To Say
     
  10. chaddilac
    Joined: Mar 21, 2006
    Posts: 14,076

    chaddilac
    Member

    That's what family is for Fred!!! Right!!!
     
  11. onlychevrolets
    Joined: Jan 23, 2006
    Posts: 2,307

    onlychevrolets
    Member

    I had a friend die today...I'm real sorry for your loss...
     
  12. 64sled
    Joined: Jul 18, 2007
    Posts: 292

    64sled
    Member

    May god bless you and your family.

    Oh he already did with a beautifull grandchild :)
     
  13. plymouth1952
    Joined: Jun 30, 2008
    Posts: 2,324

    plymouth1952
    Member

    we are more then cars or rods here we are brothers and sisters and friends here !
     
  14. chubbie
    Joined: Jan 14, 2009
    Posts: 2,361

    chubbie
    Member

    I cant know how it feels............no one can..my kids are my life!!!!

    don't let his memory fade............
     
  15. squigy
    Joined: Nov 30, 2003
    Posts: 3,915

    squigy
    Member
    from SO.FLO.

    Keep on Keeping on!
     
  16. falconwagon62
    Joined: Mar 17, 2006
    Posts: 1,431

    falconwagon62
    Member

    I have had the pleasure of doing some business with oldfart, a real stand up guy, you'll never forget your son, but may time bring you peace, and as long as that grand baby is here, you still have a small peice of the son that went home to be with our Lord, We are given the gift of the promise of a great life, but we not no when the master comes, for man's time on earth is short, stay strong and remeber we all will be together some day in that unseen home....
     
  17. coppertone
    Joined: Apr 10, 2006
    Posts: 129

    coppertone
    Member

    It's so hard when you start talking about anniversaries instead of birthdays, but there's lots of us out here today wishing we could take some of the weight off your shoulders.
     
  18. customcory
    Joined: Apr 25, 2007
    Posts: 1,831

    customcory
    Member

    Glad to see you doing better oldfart.:D
     
  19. skwurl
    Joined: Aug 25, 2008
    Posts: 1,620

    skwurl
    Member

    Keep your chin up bro
     
  20. T.W.Dustin
    Joined: Nov 18, 2008
    Posts: 883

    T.W.Dustin
    Member

    I have 2 sons and can't imagine the thought of losing either one of them before I leave this world as we know it, Prayers for you and your family and get those grandkids hooked on hot rodding :)

    All the best to you and your family.

    Tom
     
  21. Merge
    Joined: Oct 7, 2004
    Posts: 379

    Merge
    Member

    My thoughts are with you.
     
  22. Gotgas
    Joined: Jul 22, 2004
    Posts: 7,252

    Gotgas
    Member
    from DFW USA

    I sure am sorry for your loss. I'm glad to hear you were able to find solace with your friends here. Prayers to you and your family and RIP to your son. Now get some proper grease under that little boy's fingernails...
     
  23. truckncoupe
    Joined: Apr 4, 2009
    Posts: 1,428

    truckncoupe
    Member

    Oldfart my heart goes out to you today and I've lost a child at age 14 to cancer in 1989....Hold on to the memories and realize that one day you will see your son again...The rest of your life on earth do and handle things the way you know he would want you to handle them....Be strong, Keep the faith even in hard times and remember He is with you daily !!!
    God Bless you brother! Ken
     
  24. onedge
    Joined: May 25, 2006
    Posts: 999

    onedge
    Member

    oldfart keep on rocking, i too am glad that you find the hambers helpful with your loss, alot of us here are thinking of you. Happy Holidays for you!
     
  25. Fontucky Slim
    Joined: Aug 6, 2008
    Posts: 86

    Fontucky Slim
    Member

    Dont know what to post, its just hard to read that and post nothing. Prayers for the little one too.
     
  26. steeljunkieII
    Joined: Dec 28, 2007
    Posts: 90

    steeljunkieII
    Member

    They say time heels, but their full of ****! Lost my wife in 1997. Its not the fact you get over it... Its that you find better ways to get through it, you are very young into it, I cant imagine the pain but the little ones will get you through it, they got me through it. Life is good now as it will be for you. God Bless
     
  27. Happy I was able to lend some help. How's that '57 coming along?
     
  28. fab32
    Joined: May 14, 2002
    Posts: 13,985

    fab32
    Member Emeritus

    Good to hear that the HAMB was of some help to you. As you stated we are a rough and tumble bunch most of the time but we've got a good heart when the time arises. Hope you continue to heal and hold tight to that little one, that's a part of your son thats still here to comfort you. May God bless.

    Frank
     
  29. caseyrod
    Joined: Feb 9, 2008
    Posts: 138

    caseyrod
    Member

    I am sorry to hear of your lost.been a father and old fart,I feel you
     
  30. 333 Half Evil
    Joined: Oct 16, 2006
    Posts: 1,440

    333 Half Evil
    Member

    Glad to know you are still keepin on. Your son would have wanted that. Cherish the granchild and those memories you have.....Thanks for sharing the pic.
     

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