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Discussion in 'The Hokey Ass Message Board' started by JK, Oct 28, 2003.

  1. straykatkustoms
    Joined: Oct 30, 2001
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    I'm really sorry JK, our prayers will be with you and your family.

    Mick
     
  2. raven
    Joined: Aug 19, 2002
    Posts: 4,708

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    You have my deepest sympathies.
    I lost two due to miscarriages.
    (not me personally, my girlfriend...)
    You are in my prayers, God bless.
    Keep the faith.
    r
     
  3. Dat Dirty Rat
    Joined: Jan 15, 2003
    Posts: 3,505

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    Keep your head up holmes and support/comfort your girl. Its a tough time but you'll get through it. I know the pain feel and it ****s..I know this situation may never be forgotten but sooner or later you'll find happiness to share with us again...Take care of yourselves and I wish you the best!...Dirty
     
  4. Steve
    Joined: Mar 5, 2001
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    man Im sorry to hear that.
     
  5. hammeredabone
    Joined: Apr 18, 2001
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    Sorry to hear that,JK. My sisters both had that happen and next pregnancy was successful for both of them. I hope you will try again, I heard it said that it is the best thing to do. Best Wish's for you and your wife.
     
  6. chromedRAT
    Joined: Mar 5, 2002
    Posts: 1,737

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    sorry to hear about that, man. condolences...
     
  7. My heart goes out to you and your wife JK.I was going to relate to you how I know your pain but even after 20 years it is hard for me to discuss it.And what you need now more than anything is for you and your wife to be supportive of each other.Hang in there brother.
    safariknut
     
  8. MoFoMOD
    Joined: Jun 19, 2003
    Posts: 135

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    from SO CAL USA

    Sorry to hear that bro... keep your chin up.
     
  9. JK-

    The fetus likely had something wrong w/ it and the miscarriage was for a definite reason, or so says my mother-in-law who is an OB/GYN.

    I know it is difficult, but hang in there and know that it wasn't meant to be this time around.

    Take care,
    Anthony
     
  10. I know it doesn't mean much, but I'm sorry, especially with how excited you were over it. Both of you be strong...it'll happen.

    Steve
     
  11. MrExotica
    Joined: Sep 18, 2002
    Posts: 331

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    We're really to hear that. I can't begin to imagine what that feels like.
    My sister-in-law miscarried, then was on bedrest for a good part of her second try. She ended up having a wondeful little girl, my goddaughter.
    Someday, my wife & I hope to have a little tyke running around, and we pray we don't have to go through that.
    Keep trying, & stay positive. Our thoughts are with you.
     
  12. horty
    Joined: Jan 20, 2003
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    from pa.usa

    jk sorry to hear this, I feel for you and your lady, the p***age of time will help to heal your pain, let time have its way, your in my prayers later horty
     
  13. TagMan
    Joined: Dec 12, 2002
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    You and your wife are in our prayers.
     
  14. Kilroy
    Joined: Aug 2, 2001
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    from Orange, Ca

    Dude I know it ****s, but it happens. It's not uncommon at all. That's why they tell you not to tell anyone for 3 months.

    If you guys are ready for kids, just keep trying. It'll happen. Plus it's fun work. [​IMG]
     
  15. Honest
    Joined: Mar 2, 2001
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    from Dallas Tx

    Same story here...just give it time..it will happen
    Time heals..
     
  16. Jimmy
    Joined: Dec 11, 2002
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    I'm sorry to hear your news. You have my deepest sympathies.

    It a hard thing to go through emotionally but you seem to be going about it the right way by working through this together. As others have said , the body knows what it needs to do. Don't let this discourage you from trying again.
     
  17. 34Fordtk
    Joined: May 30, 2002
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    So sorry man [​IMG] [​IMG] Keep your chin up!
     
  18. Deuce Roadster
    Joined: Sep 8, 2002
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    [​IMG] [​IMG]


    Been there....done that.........

    It happened to my wife and I in 1981..........

    You never forget.......but life will go on.

    My prayers will include you and Tammy.


    [​IMG]
     
  19. Toqwik
    Joined: Feb 1, 2003
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    Thoughts and prayers for you both....Scott
     
  20. ESnacky6
    Joined: Aug 28, 2002
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    I know this may sound kinda wierd,
    but I truly do believe that eveything that happens,
    happens for a reason...

    My younger sister had a miscarriage...
    it was not the right time for her...(highschool..!!)
    Now at 28, she has a healthy 20-month-old girl...

    About two months ago, a good friend of mine lost his wife
    during childbirth..!!!(her uterus burst, got uterin poisoning(?)
    in her bloodstream and had a heart attack..!!)
    She was only 37 or 38... the baby girl lived...
    Now my buddy(at 50 yrs. old mind you...)
    gets to raise his new daughter
    (and his wifes 14 yr. old daughter...yikes..!!)
    all by himself...

    Things happen in the wierdest/lamest/saddest of ways sometimes...
    but always for a reason...

    I'm sorry for your loss...
    Good luck in life, and better luck next time..!!


     
  21. pikesan99
    Joined: Aug 13, 2002
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    Everything's already been said. I just wanted to add my support and best wishes. Hang in there.
     
  22. BUICKNAILHEAD
    Joined: Jul 21, 2003
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    It must be a saying older n dirt but "These things happen for a reason" you will get through this no problem. I have been there as well. Brighter days ahead!!! [​IMG]
     
  23. fuel pump
    Joined: Nov 4, 2001
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    Time heals all and you and your wife will have better days ahead. God has a way of rewarding those that suffer through such a loss. Stay strong for your wife.
     
  24. lil mike
    Joined: Oct 28, 2003
    Posts: 304

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    from OKC, OK

    Dude, that **** major ***! You ain't the only one that had big plans for that "LiL" Ratty *******. From someone of bad misfortune- everything happens for a reason!
     
  25. Roothawg
    Joined: Mar 14, 2001
    Posts: 26,069

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    Lil Mike, glad to see you could make it.

    Most everyone here knows OF you already...flaming shopping carts and all.

    Sorry to hijack your post JK.
     
  26. A few years ago my brother and his wife were trying to have a baby and it wasn't happening.They went to a doctor and got tested and the doc said my sister-inlaw won't ever be able to have kids.They were devestated.About two months later she was pregnent.They told everyone that they were pregnent.The girls at her work did up a lil thing about it congratulating them in the work newsletter over the weekend.When she came to work on the monday morning they suprised her with a gift for the baby and showed her the article.Well she had miscarried over that weekend.So my brother and her were naturally devestated again.They thought well I guees we can't have kids.Well a few months later she was preggy again and they didn't tell anyone except for a few of us family members until they were bout 4 months along.I now have two really kewl lil nephews from them!The docs were wrong.
    Keep faith JK,your time will come to being called 'daddy,daddy' and there aint nothing better to hear in all your life.Good luck,give your wife a big HAMB hug from all of us.........Shiny
     
  27. Crease
    Joined: May 7, 2002
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    Can't tell you how sorry I am to hear about it. God bless you and your wife.

    Chris
     
  28. Sancho
    Joined: Apr 24, 2001
    Posts: 5,036

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    I feel for you guys. I know it's tough.
    I need to make it back down there again and see everyone.

    Not to change the subject but I'll never forget you, me,
    and Lil' Mike at the bar arguing over who was going to beat the
    **** outta that 70's disco reject that kept touchin Tammy!
     
  29. Sailor
    Joined: Mar 3, 2001
    Posts: 824

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    I have been there two times, bro. Dont know quite how to put this, but no matter how painful it was for me, it was worse for my girl. So take good care of your wife. Like most things it will p*** and be a shadow in the horizon in a while, and life will go on. Keep your faith and help her keeping hers.
     

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