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Discussion in 'The Hokey Ass Message Board' started by willowbilly3, Mar 3, 2005.

  1. CharlieLed
    Joined: Feb 21, 2003
    Posts: 2,464

    CharlieLed
    Member

    My wife's father committed suicide about 5 years ago...the questions still remain as to why and what could we have done to help him.
    Stay strong for your daughter, she will need you for a long time to come. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family....
     
  2. raven
    Joined: Aug 19, 2002
    Posts: 4,707

    raven
    Member

    You are in my prayers.
    r
     
  3. JB,sorry to hear the news.
    Keep your lil girl close bro.
    Godspeed......Shiny
     
  4. you have our deepest symphathy's and heart felt prayers ,My wife and i have lost 9 freinds to themselves and it hurts for a LONG time , I still visit all my lost freinds and bro's in one day every year, sit and remember the good times, hang in there for your daughter, she too may need counciling , these things tend to continue to do damage for years to the family + freinds that are left behind.took me years to get over a couple of the losses and not over one yet.
     
  5. RagDoll
    Joined: Aug 27, 2004
    Posts: 549

    RagDoll
    Member

    I am so sorry to hear this. Add my thoughts and prayers to those already being said.
     
  6. G V Gordon
    Joined: Oct 29, 2002
    Posts: 5,724

    G V Gordon
    Member
    from Enid OK

    Prayers from Oklahoma. When the world shakes kids look for something to hold on too. I'll bet your up to the challenge, stay strong for everyone involved.
    George
     
  7. willowbilly3
    Joined: Jun 18, 2004
    Posts: 4,356

    willowbilly3
    Member Emeritus
    from Sturgis

    Thanks to all. I'm not sure why this happens either. It was almost unheard of when I was growing up, and never kids. Suicide has probably touched us all nowdays. I have had several people I was close to go that way over the last 20 years including a cousin and one of my best friends.
    I appreciate all your support and continued prayers. J.B.
     
  8. Django
    Joined: Nov 15, 2002
    Posts: 10,198

    Django
    Member
    from Chicago

    That's horrible, prayers to your family.

    My grandmother committed suicide when I was 10 and I hated her for it. I have forgiven her for myself, but I don't think that I ever can for what it did to my mom.
     
  9. JimC
    Joined: Dec 13, 2002
    Posts: 2,243

    JimC
    Member
    from W.C.,Mo.

    Our family has experienced the trauma suicide imposes.
    It seems to be a selfish thing, but what pushes someone to do this is beyond our comprehension. Your pain and that of your family is known to us, and we share your feelings.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your daughter, and your former wife.

    Jim and Judy
     
  10. snortonnorton
    Joined: Sep 18, 2004
    Posts: 889

    snortonnorton
    Member
    from Florida

    i'm sorry, I'll pray for your family
     
  11. Joe T Creep
    Joined: Jan 1, 2003
    Posts: 1,145

    Joe T Creep
    Member Emeritus

    OMG. My prayers are with you.
     
  12. 61Lancerwagon
    Joined: Feb 18, 2005
    Posts: 112

    61Lancerwagon
    ALLIANCE MEMBER

    I will add my prayers to those of the others, I hope the rest of the family pulls through this ok.

    Randy
     
  13. SnoDawg
    Joined: Jul 23, 2004
    Posts: 1,013

    SnoDawg
    Member

    My thoughts are with you and yours.
     
  14. InPrimer
    Joined: Mar 10, 2003
    Posts: 778

    InPrimer
    Member

    Our prayers are with you and your family ................... Serge
     
  15. J.B.
    Joined: Jan 7, 2005
    Posts: 1,250

    J.B.
    Member
    from Sweden

    Terrible... So sad...
     
  16. Jake H.
    Joined: Sep 16, 2003
    Posts: 492

    Jake H.
    Member

    Another young life lost. So senseless. My deepest sympathy.

    Jake
     
  17. Dan
    Joined: Mar 13, 2001
    Posts: 2,386

    Dan
    Member

    my thoughts and prayers are with you...
     
  18. blown49
    Joined: Jul 25, 2004
    Posts: 2,212

    blown49
    Member Emeritus

    Lost a daughter-in-law 3 years ago January 17th. 28 years old and had a heart attack. Left a 9 year old son and 5 year old daughter. Not a day goes by that one of the kids doesn't mention her name. It was harder on the 5 year old than the 9 year old.

    Not the same but still missed by all. Keep your little girl close and don't be afraid to be open and honest with her at this time about what happened. She and the ex will need a lot of help for awhile. Be patient with both and help them all you can......
     
  19. v8minor
    Joined: Jan 1, 2002
    Posts: 666

    v8minor
    Member

    Sometimes you think your own problems are bad,, sorry to hear that..
     
  20. k9racer
    Joined: Jan 20, 2003
    Posts: 3,091

    k9racer
    Member

    I hope I put this in the correct words. Make sure his friends are watched with care. I had a friend whose child wanted to join a friend after killing hisself.This child also died at his own hand. I am very sorry for your loss... Bobby..
     
  21. squigy
    Joined: Nov 30, 2003
    Posts: 3,915

    squigy
    Member
    from SO.FLO.

    will keep you in our prayers...sorry to hear of your lose..:(
     
  22. popsrods
    Joined: Jan 19, 2005
    Posts: 112

    popsrods
    Member
    from macon,ga.

    Very sorry for your loss,you and yours will be in our prayers.
    pops
     
  23. Blue
    Joined: May 31, 2001
    Posts: 202

    Blue
    Member

    Very sorry to hear the bad news. It puts a nasty feeling in the pit of my stomach. Be as strong as you can for all involved.
     
  24. 500LBGorilla
    Joined: Jul 30, 2003
    Posts: 402

    500LBGorilla
    Member
    from Austin Tx

    ALL our support from the east coast in your time of need
    Rocco,Rumblers CC NYC
     
  25. 38pickup
    Joined: Aug 11, 2004
    Posts: 1,109

    38pickup
    Member

    my thoughts and prayers go out to you. :( :(
     
  26. IntrstlarOvrdrve
    Joined: Feb 26, 2004
    Posts: 364

    IntrstlarOvrdrve
    Member

    I'll pray for you guys, that's terrible. I seriously feel sorry for her, I couldnt imagine that :(
     
  27. thesupersized
    Joined: Aug 22, 2004
    Posts: 1,367

    thesupersized
    Member

    wow im sorry to hear that, keep strong and keep close
     
  28. Guider
    Joined: May 30, 2004
    Posts: 65

    Guider
    Member

    Damn wb3, that's exactly how my best friend died in 1993. One thing I learned to is keep the lines of communication open. Keep an eye out for the quiet ones too, they're are the ones with all the questions but too afraid to ask.

    Til this day, I am still close to his family. We make it a point to be there for them on their birthdays, and his as its the most difficult and painful one to remember.....and Xmas. Whenever we throw a party, they are always invited.

    Our prayers are with you and yours.

    Guider
     
  29. Crease
    Joined: May 7, 2002
    Posts: 2,878

    Crease
    Member

    We'll be prayin for you.
     
  30. chromedRAT
    Joined: Mar 5, 2002
    Posts: 1,737

    chromedRAT
    Member

    holy ****, man, words can't begin to say what ya gotta be feelin, sorry for everybody...
     

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