From incredible high to a low, RIP Jay

Our Prayers are with you. Keep up the faith its the only thing that will get you thru this.
Danny

 

Way too young...my condolences...

R-

 

I know how it hurts to lose a brother. I lost my best friend (my brother) all too suddenly a few years ago. All I can say is the most of the hurt will eventually go away. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

 

Gob bless

 

I'm really sorry to hear about your brother. This sort of thing leaves you feeling pretty empty and confused and the only advise I can offer is just take things one day at a time for a while. This type of trama to your sole needs time to heal just as if it was a physical trama to your body. Let us all be reminded of how precious life is and to live everyday as if it were our last. God bless ya'll.

 

My brothers and I have never been particulary close, we're too much alike to get along for more than a couple hours. I would still hate to lose one though, and I'm sorry for your loss.

 

-w

 

Wow Ted, Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

 

Sincerest condolences man. For real. This is never easy to deal with, and I know exactly how you feel.

 

Just a suggestion to help you through the holidays.

If your family had traditions, like a seating arrangement at the Christmas dinner table, change them up. The first year we went out to a restaurant because my parents couldn't sit in a room with an empty chair. I know this sounds insensitive and poor timing but there is a range of emotions coming after the shock wears off.

I am praying for ya buddy.

 

sorry to hear that man, prayers

 

Im sorry

 

Damn, what a kick in the nuts! I have brothers, both older and younger, and for some wierd reason, we don't seem to say "Hey man, I love you" anywhere near often enough. Your very painful reminder of how short life can sometimes be has caused me to forget that manly-man stuff. Now, I'll be telling them more frequently for sure.

I don't know many things for sure, but I am fairly certain from your post here that your brother knew exactly how you felt and when you two get together again sometime in the future he'll be telling you that as you exchange great big bear hugs. Just remember to do things here and now that will make your brother proud. Things will be okay.

John, aka "oldandkrusty"

 

Our condolences go out to you and your family.......

 

Too much of this stuff seams to be happening- HemiRambler and myself lost a co-worker this past week too. (51 yrs old) I know the feelings you have now. My heartfelt sorrow goes to you and may God help all of us.

 

El C. sorry about your loss...

 

sorry man...my prayers are withy our family and friends...

 

ElCaballo me Amigo, please don't beat up yourself about not calling etc., our everyday lives are filled with distractions and commitments that occupy most of our time. I'm guessing you are a loving comp***ionate guy, just from seeing your display of childrens art work in the background in your profile shot. Try to feel the caring for your situation from all the sisters and brothers of the H.A.M.B.In God we trust. Prayers and Love from myself and all the Roadburners in Omaha, Ne.-Sololobo

 

Sorry to hear of your loss. So young. Seems to be a new, unfortunate trend for the HAMB folks. Thoughts and prayers to your family.

 

ElC, deepest condolences.

Via Con Dios.


jerry

 

My condolences!

 

That is horrible. There is really nothing, aside from some good advice, that we can say. When you can get back with your family, let everyone know how you feel about them and mourn together.

 

I lost my younger brother when he was 36. I know its hard and I wish there was a fast forward ****on to get you through these tough times faster, but unfortunatly we have to wade through our sorrow and deal with it day by day until we get to a place where we can put everything in perspective. Remember him and the good times. These are the memories that you will take with you and will help you through. My brother has been gone ten years now and funny stories about him are told at every holiday and family gathering and not a day goes by that I don't think of him. Hang in there, it will get better, he would want it that way.

 

My thoughts are with you. Hang in there man.

 

You seem to be a man of faith, That will get you through, along with support from friends and loved ones. I know it doesn't get talked about here much (not the place for it) but i can tell there are a lot of believers on this board. Prayers are heard and answered, it's a promise.
GV

 

remember his smile and how he agravatted ya sometimes and he's watchin now...
grieving is a unatural/natural thing you need to do to sort it out..
all we can do is remember him..and it was not your fault he is gone..
talk it out , write it out, go thru some pics be strong and feel the love
time is precious
paperdog

 

My prayers for you and you family.

 

Life sure is a rollercoaster......

 

Truely sad news ElC. My thoughts are with you. Hang in there.