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My Dad is in Hospis care

Discussion in 'The Hokey Ass Message Board' started by jandlcars, Aug 29, 2012.

  1. my dad is in hospis care at home
    going fasti am headed to Cat in Am to see him
    he is the last mrmber of the 9th infentry last oart of the battle of the buldge
    he was the front man he had the B A R
    he did not like my racing but i got him hooked on it
    he is the first one in pic i am next my hriend steve & his brother in law
    Sears Point about 1975
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  2. Mr T body
    Joined: Nov 2, 2005
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    Mr T body
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    I am in exactly the same situation with my father currently, so I wish you and him only one thing....... a quick, painless, and dignified end.
    Stay strong.....
     
  3. F&J
    Joined: Apr 5, 2007
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    Ah ha, the biggest guy gets to carry the Browning..

    Say hi from us on the hamb.


    Mine was at Iwo Jima; I have a pic of him with a Thompson, I think that's what they were called.
     
  4. Praying for you and your family. My father, Sgt. Pershing Wadsworth, was also in the Battle of the Bulge, 41st Infantry 2nd Armored Division. Thankful that you have hospice care in place and that you are able to go and be with him. Praying for your dad and all of your family to be at peace.
     
  5. Don's Hot Rods
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    from florida

    No one will be able to give you any words that make it any easier, but just know that your Pop had a good, full life, and if he will leave behind family and friends who respect and love him that is all any of us can ask for. All of will go through this sometime in our life and it is always hard for those we leave behind.

    I certainly wish him well. He looks like he was having a blast in that picture and I bet that is how he lived his life. :)

    Don
     
  6. Roger Walling
    Joined: Sep 26, 2010
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    I viseted a hospis in Ct last year in Dec.
    There was a soldier there who was also in the battle of the Bulge.
    I talked with him for a while and he spoke clearly and in detail, it was hard to believe that he was in a hospis.
     
  7. ssimpala
    Joined: Jan 25, 2011
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    My dad was there also. He was an Army medic and, like your dad, he is also dying. But, like Don said, they've lived long full lives and have us to remember them. It's hard, but will be O.K.
     
  8. Jimm56
    Joined: Aug 27, 2010
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    Lost my Dad in June. He served in the Pacific, was part of the occupation forces after the war. Hospice helped us a lot during the last year. They are great people. They are also there for the rest of the family, too.
    Best wishes for your Dad, may he be comfortable and pain-free.
     
  9. fxcomet
    Joined: Oct 5, 2009
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    Lost my dad in May, so I fully emphathize with you. Hospice is a terrific organization and they'll take good care of him. Prayers for you. Its a hard road you're on.
     
  10. gods speed and a brother vets respect.
     
  11. Nonstop
    Joined: Jun 18, 2012
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    Nonstop
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    from CA

    At least he gets to be at home! I feel for you and prayers are sent up...was there last year (but with my Grandma) and it SUCKS!

    Another hero is being called up!
     
  12. Bill in Al
    Joined: Sep 26, 2011
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    My prayers and especially my Thanks for his service.
     
  13. jetnow1
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    My sister is a Hospice Nurse- I could not begin to deal with what they do. There are
    a lot of very special people working in these facilities- They will do everything they can
    to make your Dad's last days as easy on Him and all of his loved ones as they can.
    Thank your Dad for his service - Jim
     
  14. Thanks for Your Prayers
    I am leaving FL in the early AM
     
  15. GEEZZER
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    God bless you and your pop, sounds like he had a great life. My dad also fought in the battle of the bulge. He was w/the 78th infantry division. We are so lucky to have been raised by Moms and Dads from the greatest generation.
    PS: thank god for hospice
     
  16. WortRod
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    from california

    So sorry to hear about your dad,our thoughts and prayers are with you. And your family
     
  17. Hospice sent out a small ladie and she could not handle him
    so they sent in a large male nurse yery quickly

    again Thank You For Your Prayers
     
  18. wkrpinnick
    Joined: Jul 29, 2012
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    from salina ks

    My wife is a hospice nurse , my thoughts are with all of you that have lost a loved one.. I have much respect for what these nurses and care givers do for those in need of comfort..Although we cant bring them back.. At least we know, with people like them our friends and family are with good care..

    I can fix things that are broken, there is no way i could do what this job requires...
    Everyone exists here for a reason..

    I did get to show an old time car guy my dads model A~s while he was in the unit here in salina ks.. that was way cool!!!
     
  19. Fortunateson
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    I've lost both of my parents but cherishing the memories always keeps them at my side. God Bless.
     
  20. tommyd
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    from South Indy

    Man, I hate that you and your family are going through this. Prayers sent and thanks for letting us share your burden. Have a safe trip.
     
  21. cvstl
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    Praying for you dad and your family.
     
  22. Fourdy
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    I was at my Father's bedside for his last 7 days on this earth. I feel we got very close during the initial 3 days. I was also with my Mother as she also passed to a better place. My thoughts will be with you during this time.

    Fourdy
     
  23. wetatt4u
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    Man,
    God bless you and your Dad...

    With all do respect ,I feel your pain ..I'M so sorry ...

    Prayers for DAD and all the family....
     
  24. My wife is a hospice nurse also. Hospice really can make your time left with your dad a lot better. Take the time now to spend with him, it is never easy.
     
  25. bobw
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    We all should be in awe and in debt to your father and all of the service people of his generation.
     
  26. I agree with Bob W God bless your Dad and all of his Generation.....we indeed owe a huge debt to our fathers/fathers fathers who paid the ultimate price.

    Respect.

    Rat
     
  27. Nailhead Brooklyn
    Joined: Jul 31, 2012
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    Sending you positive thoughts...
     
  28. Hospice care at home is great if its possible. My stepmother (nobody liked her.. long story) died in hospice in a nursing home over a year ago. My beloved mother inlaw went a similar way this past Xmas. They both got great care alll the way to the end.

    Bob
     
  29. OfficerBimbo
    Joined: Mar 22, 2012
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    We are praying for you and your family.
     
  30. 1952henry
    Joined: Jan 8, 2006
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    God bless your father, you and your father. Just buried my 86 year old godfather yesterday. Helps to recall all of the fond memories. As stated, be thankful he was able to enjoy a full life and the time you had with him.
     

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