she's gone for good...

Your sickness was too much for HER to handle?? I've been sittin here reading that post over and over and can't make myself understand what the hell would lead a wife to leave you because of Crohn's. She can't catch it for God's sake and you were both happy before this. As I understand it , it can often be caused by stress. 8 years ago my then 10 year old daughter was diagnosed with ulcerative colitis. Although they are not the same I understand what you are going through. Stay strong my friend and don't give up. We ARE here for you whenever you need us and when it's time to build another rod, well you know where to go for the help. Although I was one that tried to tell you to keep the car and work with the hospital on the debt, Im glad that you made the decision to let it go. That in itself eliminates some stress and will help you move on. God Bless and take care of yourself

 

thanx everyone, sorry to hear about the UC especially for a child. i will keep her in my prayers. thanx again... i'll definately be back... maybe w/ an even hotter chick in the p***. seat. lol

 

Hang in, brother! Keeping a positive at***ude in the most important thing to so when the **** hits the fan and YOU HAVE IT!!! You WILL overcome these issues and we WILL see you do it!!! Prayers with you and your kids!

 

You did the right thing by selling your car to pay the medical bills. Many people wouldn't. I am more saddened to learn that your wife can't seem to take the stress of your illness. I mean, damn it's your illness not hers. If she couldn't deal with this issue, she was bound to fall apart sooner or later over something else. I really feel sorry for your kids, divorce can be so devastating on youngins.

I'll keep you and the kids in my thoughts and prayers and hope for a better life and future for you all.

 

With you being so close to the amount you owe they better settle for that OR LESS so you can move forward debt free. like those have said get down and dirty with them over this, a lot of people just sluff it off and never pay. The best to you and hope you come back stronger than ever from this.

Frank

 

hodaddyo, sorry about your situation, wish I could do more than offer support. Like said before, medical bills can be negotiated, what I can do is keep you in my prayers, good luck & hang tight bro.

 

thanks for that, so far so good with all the meds but it really scared the **** out of us til it was under control for the most part. You seem have a great at***ude towards another ride oh yeah and another car too. Be well and keep posting for mental well being. We're pulling for ya. Rich