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Discussion in 'The Hokey Ass Message Board' started by nickk, Mar 18, 2013.

  1. nickk
    Joined: Feb 2, 2011
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    So I just found out my only friend through high school that was into hot rods just died. At the age of 22 I just dont really have friends my age into old cars. and i just happen to lose the one I loved the most that was. We was the outcast in school because our cars were loud and a little beat up with age. We stuck together since we was 12, until today. I know we all lose people, I've just never lost anyone so close, since ive only lived where I do now for 13 years hes definately stuck in for the long hual. All I can do is just tell stories now. I just wish things didnt end the way they do. I know some older folk rely on us younger guys to carry on what we do, but things like this just hurt, I'll just have to work harder.ffice:eek:ffice" /><O:p></O:p>

    hes the long haired fellow beside me, and his c10 we raised a lot of hell in
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  2. davidh73750
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    ahh another spot the wonder truck. I've had a lot of fun and growing pains in those. Sorry for your loss.
     
  3. Rickybop
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    So very sorry Nick. What happened with your friend?...if you don't mind.
     
  4. nickk
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    Some how or another, from what I heard he was under a semi truck working on it (apparently with no wheels), and the jacks failed and crushed him. This all just happened in the last couple hours so I havent heard much
     
  5. Boyd Wylie
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    I'm sorry about your friend,Nick
     
  6. Really hate it brother, wrench to his memory. I have something on my car to the memory of an old school buddy of mine, no one else knows and puts a grin on my face when I cruise. Thoughts and prayers to you and his family.
     
  7. Hnstray
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    from Quincy, IL

    Words sometimes fail to truly express one's thoughts and feelings, but yours spoke clearly. I am sorry for your friend's loss of life at such a young age and the pain you are exeriencing.

    Ray
     
  8. Sorry to hear about your friend. It's always rough to lose someone.
     
  9. KustomCars
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    from Minnesota

    Very sad to hear!
     
  10. Rickybop
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    Oh dear. That's a terrible tragedy. Again...very very sorry. Some will tell you to be "strong". I say cry your eyes out...allow yourself to grieve...it's the natural thing, and the first step to emotional healing. All the best to you.
     
  11. nickk
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    You know I feel like I got it rough because I just lost a great friend, but he just got married a couple monthes ago and hes been building a 65 impala for his little brother, I can only imagine how his family is taking this.
     
  12. rd martin
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    from indiana

    thats tuff stuff, i lost a daughter a few years ago, all you can really do is remember the good times you had, get back on them old cars! he would want you to.
     
  13. J scow
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    Aw man that fucking sucks brother. Working on cars is the best therapy. I hope you find someone soon who share in the same interests. Losing friends blows...
     
  14. Rickybop
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    Had a new wife too? Lord have mercy.

    Well then, you do have a reason to be strong...for her.
     
  15. Cubby
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    So sorry to hear of your loss...
     
  16. Fugly Too
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    Nick, despite the fact that a lot of us are grayheads, this is the place you came to try and make sense of this. We are listening.

    The regular world may never understand car people, Which was one reason you and your friend were tight. They do not tolerate a lot of bullshit, some are a pain to know, but when one of us runs into a deal like this, the wagons circle pretty damm quick.

    When we lost our daughter the the first to show up at our door or call to offer help were my car buds. They're still with us.

    Take it slow, take your time, and buzz us with any questions. Know your buddy is now your hot rod guardian angel.

    HE WON'T LET YOU DOWN.
     
  17. nickk
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    thanks everyone, all we can do is stick together and appriciate everyone we have
     
  18. b-bob
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    Sorry about your friend, a terrible loss for you and his family.
     
  19. Jalopy Joker
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    Sincere sympathy goes out to his Family, and great friends like you. just take one day at a time.
     
  20. SquireDon
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    from Oregon

    So sorry for the loss of your friend.
     
  21. sierra rod shop
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    sorry for your loss
     
  22. Don's Hot Rods
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    from florida

    God, that is horrible, so young. :( Sorry for the loss of your friend. In life, if we are lucky, we end up with a few people we can call "best friends." Sounds like you and he were best buds. I wish you and his family comfort through this very difficult time.

    Don
     
  23. Okie Pete
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    Condolences Nick
    I still reach for the phone when I need some help on something I am stuck on or would like to share something Kool . Then I remember my Friend isn't here on this rock any more . Time will easy the pain but it will not dull the memories of the good times. Hang in there . Sorry for your loss . Be there for his Family in the days to come. They will need support .
     
  24. oldsjoe
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    Damn shame a person so young as you has to deal with a tragedy like this. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and his family. As other's have said keep wheelin the old rides!
     
  25. Hemiman 426
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    Most sincere condolences to you and his family.. It's a sad thing that we all have to face growing up.. Keep him in your heart Bro!!
     
  26. henryj1951
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    from USA

    condolences... sorry for your loss
     
  27. HotRodToomer
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    We can only listen to the engine roar as the eternal memory of thouse we care about.

    My condolences.

    Sent from Casino security...
     
  28. nickk
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    I wish I knew what to say to all this, I really do appreciate everything though. Y'all have been helpful
     
  29. No words will make you feel better, but we are here for you at this tragic moment in your life. Best buds are rare and should be treasured. You never know when they will be gone. Sorry he was taken in such a senseless accident. My condolences to the family.
    Pat
     
  30. Deuces
    Joined: Nov 3, 2009
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    Deuces

    Damn, that sucks!!!!!...... Sorry to hear about your bro man..... :(
     

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